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A more formal Lauren

Although there were
few possibilities for me to really dress up when I lived in St. Petersburg, Florida, I did manage to obtain this lovely dress for a church social held to advance gay rights.

My Unitarian Universalist Church of St. Petersburg was a pleasing place to be a woman, because I was treated better than an average female. My church was a welcoming church of about 150 members. It was LGBTQIA+ friendly. 

I passed as a woman everywhere in the Tampa Bay Area, all the time, because there were many more women who looked like me in Florida. Since I didn't try to be sexy, people ignored me.

I wore this dress a few times, including when I went to a special party at the Don Cesar Resort Hotel in St. Petersburg Beach where I danced all night with a gay friend of mine.

Most of my friends, even when I was male for all those years were women and gay men. 

I had no real male friends at all. I had nothing in common with men and found it hard to like any.

Now, that I am a woman, my friends are the same.